Let it Fall Away

When it comes to life, we are always going to experience challenges. I recently did a Tik Tok about the difference between being a RESPONDER and being a REACTOR (View it here).

We are given so many opportunities to make real life-changing decisions, and it is UP TO US how we navigate them.

We GET to decide what energy we are available for. For example, I was recently called "hostile" because I chose to set a boundary with someone in my life. The way I have learned to set boundaries is from a loving, kind space; so hostility was farthest from my intention. I could have let the anger drive the bus, and I could have found a million justifications and many people who would have backed me on this. Instead I chose to divert my attention to people and things that SERVED my highest good.

I am a believer that everything happens for a reason. And when we are in the depths of a challenge, I know that this is the least believable thing, but what I can tell you is this: I believe that everything happens for a reason, and its because there is a LESSON that is available for us that has lead us down this path.

I was recently speaking to an old friend, and was reminded of when I was going through my divorce. There were so many reasons for me to not understand why this was happening for me, but NOW it is so clear!

My divorce taught me:

• Boundaries.

• To speak my truth.

• Trust, in myself and others.

• How to ask for help and support.

• Emotional intelligence and resilience.

• But most of all...it taught me the power of LETTING GO

Now this last lesson, has been one of the things I carry with me wherever I go. The power in letting go, isn't so that we fold in the towel and admit defeat. Letting go, is allowing what needs to fall away to fall. Sometimes it means allowing the Universe to bulldoze everything in our life so that we can decide what we want to carry. Letting go ultimately leads to rebuilding our life with the pieces that best serve us, and allow space for what is aligned with our soul to come in.

So often we hold on to things (even when they aren't good for us) because we are afraid of what will happen when we let go.

One thing I can say for certain, I am so happy I let go. I am 100% certain, that I would not have the life I have now, if I didn't have the courage to let my life be bulldozed.

The thing that broke you, will be the same thing that MAKES you, if you are brave enough to let it.

I know that it can be scary to let go, to leave your comfort zone and venture off into the unknown. But I also know you will NEVER regret following your heart and the divine guidance from the Universe.

Take however big or small steps you need, but find your True North and you will find exactly what you need!